If you love rose , you need to accept its thorns too

When my friend uttered this word.. something flashed inside me.. What a beautiful word..

This single statement can be taken for two different scenarios..

 

1. Life will not be allways as we expect. Accept and live to the fullest as it comes.

2. In any relationship.. be it a friendship or a partner, you have to accept them as they are.. for a beautiful relationship.

 

Life is not a bed of roses alone. Its thickly sown with thorns, and I know no other remedy than to pass quickly through them saying "this will pass on too". The longer we dwell on our misfortunes, the greater is their power to harm us.  So lets keep moving on.. and on.. enjoying the fragrance of the roses and the comfort of softness..

 

And to the second scenario.. Its true nobody is perfect in this world. But each one of us expect others to be perfect and right. and we never bother how we are.  As beautiful explained by my friend in his own words..

 

" If we see from the angel of science/physics, No surface is idealy frictionless. Even if we have something totaly frictionless, it may be useless. Friction should exist because it enables us to walk, write, ride and many other.. 

 

So perfection is accepting yourself as you are as a total bundle and package.

 

If you love rose , you need to accept its thorns too.

That's a total and serene love towards rose. 

 

But if we lead a life with some one who focuses only on your weakness and imperfections,
they miss the golden opportunities seeing you perfections and strength. It is the perception that  matters . Not perfection "

 

So accepting a person as he is.. nourishes the relationship and keeps it going eternally ever and for ever.. Happy Living Friends..